For the past couple of weeks, I have been selling beautiful, Black Obsidian yoni wands. As expected, these have been very well-received by those interested in Conscious Sexuality in South Africa – but I have also had a few women ask me what the differences are between yoni wands and yoni eggs?
Yoni/Body Reconnection
As with my yoni eggs and yoni steaming herbs, yoni wands continue my theme of yoni/body reconnection – and of how important this is for vitality in all aspects of our lives. Both the wands and the eggs help to build sensitivity and increase our capacity for pleasure. But when it comes to the main differences between the two, my feelings/discovery on this so far is as follows:-
Yoni Eggs – are better for toning the pelvic floor, increasing circulation and lubrication, and for building dexterity. They can also be “worn” – so a yoni egg practice can be continued into your day (at least for a couple of hours, I don’t recommend wearing one for too much longer than that) and, in this way, nicely integrated into your life as a whole and with more time to build sensory awareness – the connection between the brain and vagina, which has immensely powerful healing results. There is also a big clue in the appearance of the two… the shape and energy of the eggs is very feminine – very “yin” – gentle, teaching us to receive, to be more open and to connect with and build sexual energy. The eggs are very grounding and have a very strong restorative effect on the whole vagina/womb area.
Yoni Wands – are better for de-armouring the vagina and cervix, as it is possible to to keep hold of them – even when you are on the cervix – and to direct them to specific points and hold them there whilst your body releases. They are also a wonderful self-pleasure or partner-pleasure tool. Using a yoni wand for self-pleasure can help us work out for ourselves what we enjoy sexually – we can work out the different zones, strokes and tempo we find to be most pleasurable – information we can then share with a partner too, if we so choose. A yoni wand is certainly recommended for cervical stimulation/orgasm – as its length makes it so much easier for prolonged stimulation of the cervix, which can be very hard to reach just using the fingers.
The shape and energy of the wands is masculine – very “yang” – they have a clear, direct focus (de-armouring or pleasure) and are more about releasing sexual energy/unwanted emotions – which obviously brings its own healing and builds vitality. And is a lot of fun too…. Using a yoni wand is like upping your pleasure experience several notches – highly recommended! 😉
I hope this helps clarify these differences a little more – but if you have any comments or questions, please feel free to post them, below.
Sexual Reflexology chart
Also, if the de-armouring practice is something that interests you, be sure to sign up to my mailing list to the right of this page and you will receive a copy of my Sexual Reflexology chart, giving the various zones of the vagina that relate to the different organs of the body and the emotions that they hold when both in and out of balance. Different Taoist sexual healing positions and sounds are also provided 🙂
I would like to know the price of both the yoni eggs and yoni wands,and where I can buy them in SA.
Hi there, thanks for getting in touch. I have sent you an email 🙂 Juliet x
Please provide me with more information about de armouring
Hi, thanks for getting in touch. You can find a lot more information about de-armouring by visiting my page – https://yonieggs.co.za/yoni-wands. Have a look at that and then do feel free to get in touch again if you have any more questions. You can always send me a message via the contact form – https://yonieggs.co.za/contact – and I can email you directly. Thanks! Have a lovely evening 🙂 xx
Hi. Our practice is interested in selling Yoni Eggs to our patients. Are you a stockists? As they are hard to find.
Hi Sumayya, thanks for getting in touch. Have just emailed you. Juliet x
Please send information on how to order the yoni eggs & wand.
I am in the US
Thank you
Hi Shannon, you can order any of my products via the Online Shop. I ship worldwide so once you enter your address details, the shipping rate will automatically be calculated prior to you making payment. Payment can then be made using your credit card via my secure payment gateway. Let me know if you need any further assistance. Thanks – have a wonderful day! 🙂 xx
Hi there
I need the yoni eggs and wand. My vag walls and muscles need a serious exercise. I had a 4th degree tear 8 yrs ago. How long does this therapy take to work?
Senzelo
Hi Senzelo, thanks for getting in touch. I would recommend you start off with a yoni steaming maintenance/repair protocol (1-2 times per week, every week, except during your period) – which will not only help with breaking down any scar tissue from the tear but will also help to increase pelvic circulation and nurture your vaginal tissue too. And nurturing is always a great place to start. For further toning, I would recommend using a yoni egg – for about 10 minutes at a time, on a daily basis if possible. It is very hard to say how long improvement takes as there are so many different factors involved in each person’s individual healing. But the more committed you are to these practices, the sooner you will see improvement. Yoni wands are used more for de-armouring and pleasure – and may well help you release any trauma stored from your tear, as well as any other stored trauma too. Releasing trauma also helps to increase circulation (thus assisting in healing) and restores sensation too. You can read more about the de-armouring process here. Hope this info helps! xx
Today Im embarking on an at least 30 day self pleasuring journey to heal my sexuality and relationship with pleasure. Reading this really helped me, so I‘m kind of thinking of getting a rose quartz (for love) egg and an obsidian (removes negative energy) wand. What‘s your take on that? Or why are jade eggs also so popular? Looking forward to some of your insights, thank you!
Hi Julia, thanks for getting in touch! And that is wonderful to hear – such an empowering and joyful and important journey to embark upon 🙂 When we make time for ourselves like this, it is amazing where such an intention takes us. My own experience has demonstrated to me that just showing up in this way is profoundly healing. Rose quartz and black obsidian are both awesomely powerful stones to use on such a journey – and the combination of the two is a real winner. But it sounds like you have thought that out well already. Ultimately, your intention for this journey (ie to heal your sexuality and relationship with pleasure) supersedes the need to use any particular stone, whilst at the same time, these stones are great for supporting you in this intention. So I always recommend to women to simply trust their gut when choosing their stones – with the right intention, all wands and eggs are equally effective. I think a lot of women do gravitate towards jade as jade was the original stone used to make yoni eggs – but things have moved on a lot since then: we are dealing with additional issues in this day and age – and certain other stones have a particular gift in supporting us with those issues. So that is my take on things – do let me know if you have any more questions! Wishing you a fun, joyful, healing, pleasure-filled 30 days ahead! Much love xx