I think there is still a very common belief (in society at large) that if women are in a relationship, there shouldn’t be a need for her to self-pleasure. Here’s why I don’t agree with that – and also why I feel self-pleasure is so important for all women, of all ages. First of all, … [Read more…]
So I’ve often spoken about the wonders of Yoni Steaming and how it can help in a myriad of different ways… It really is one of the most effective practices we women can use to deal with any menstrual/reproductive health issues we may be experiencing – and yet, at the same time it is … [Read more…]
I first came across yoni eggs about 5 years ago, whilst checking out the work of Kim Anami. Kim does a pretty good sales job on yoni egg use in general – and is also known for travelling around the world and lifting various objects (from chandeliers to surfboards) with her vagina… Yoni weight-lifting aside, … [Read more…]
I consider a yoni wand to be an absolute essential for any woman wishing to awaken or develop her sexuality. Not only are they the best way to de-armour the cervix and vagina – releasing old stagnant or toxic emotions and increasing sensitivity and pleasure – they are also so much fun to use to … [Read more…]
It is always fascinating to me how much time and money gets spent on all kinds of aesthetic self-care but so little on our not-quite-so-visible sexual self-care – the importance of which has, up until recently, been so seldom spoken about. At one time it really did seem like the “hidden” taboo subject of our … [Read more…]
What is Sensuality? Having embarked on a journey with the very clear purpose of exploring my own sensuality (and sexuality – and the interplay between the two) over the past 3-4 years, here are some of my musings so far… So what is sensuality – and what can we learn/gain by exploring/developing it? The dictionary … [Read more…]
As women, pleasure is our power fuel. And yet, most of us have become so conditioned to switching off our natural sensuality and going into “operating mode”, that experiencing pleasure on a daily basis is now something we have to make a point of making time for. Pleasure is often viewed in society as frivolous … [Read more…]
The deeper I dive into what I am now liking to call the “remembering of our sexual wholeness” (rather than the healing of our sexuality – which implies we are broken and we’re not) – the more I am reminded that this is first and foremost a solo journey, one that can really only be … [Read more…]
Wow, I’ve even had resistance to writing this post about resistance! It’s taken me a few days to get to this point! But anyway, here I am at last… Unpacking the reasons why I resist the intimate self-care practices I love to share with everyone else – but sometimes find SO hard to enter into … [Read more…]
For the past couple of weeks, I have been selling beautiful, Black Obsidian yoni wands. As expected, these have been very well-received by those interested in Conscious Sexuality in South Africa – but I have also had a few women ask me what the differences are between yoni wands and yoni eggs? Yoni/Body Reconnection As … [Read more…]
